Praying In Times
of Need
The Difference Between Need and Greed
We have to constantly ask
ourselves before we go to God with petitions, whether they are driven by need
or greed. We are in a society that is so much powered by greed than need. To
our shame, we tend to ever go before God always wanting more. Do you find it
hard to be satisfied with what you have? Then you know what I am talking about
– I wish I lived in this or that estate, or had this or that car or I wish I
could get promoted or I had a Doctorate etc. sadly this has taken its toll on
our prayers! You will discover that you often turn to God with grossly selfish requests. We must learn to
examine our motives as we make our requests to God… we should request what we
need.
“…Give us this day our daily
bread…” (Matthew 6:11)
Read James 4:3 on motives
We may bring any requests but be
careful not to bring selfish requests. Hoe do we guard against greed in our
prayers? Contentment with God’s provision – for contentment extinguishes greed
(Read 1 Timothy 6:6-10). Contentment is here contrasted with the a deep desire
for the things of this world. People who are contented appreciate what the Lord
has given them. We must not only fight away covetousness, but also be
appreciative of what the Lord has provided for us.
Seeking Changed
Do we try to change God through
prayer? Are our requests intended to compel Him to act in ways He did not
already intend? Since God is unchanging, why do we bother to pray at all?
Whenever we ask God to grant something we need, we are asking Him in effect to
direct the events of the world.
1) Petitions
do not certainly change God
God has a comprehensive and
unchangeable plan for His creation. His designs for history have been set and
cannot be altered: Proverbs 16:4; Isaiah 46:9-10; Job 23:13-14
Clearly our petitions cannot
interrupt God’s plan for the universe any more than a trampoline can break the
power of gravity to reach the moon! What
benefits do we derive in this knowledge? This means that even when going
through all sorts of difficulties, even from the devil himself we can take solace
in the knowledge that our holy God has ordained the events of history for our
good and His eternal glory (Romans 8:28)
2) Prayers
are ordained by God Himself as a means of moving Him to action! (We
must always achieve the balance of both)
Why pray when God already knows
and controls everything? Why go to a doctor? Why work? Why evangelize? God’s
plan is so comprehensive that it not only includes the final destinies of
things but al so includes the secondary, creaturely processes that work
together to accomplish these ends. God did not only ordain light but He also
created the sun and the moon! God does not just ordain that someone will
recover from sickness but has given medical knowledge, doctors and medication
to accomplish the healing. God has established these creaturely actions as
vital creaturely means for accomplishing His purposes. Prayer is one of the
secondary causes through which God fulfils His Plans. So we should be careful
not to neglect prayer.
See the example of Moses’s prayer
in Exodus 32 after God had already said that He was going to annihilate the
Israelites for being so stiff necked. And yet the Lord relented from what He
had intended to do.
Expectations and resignation
What kinds of expectations may we
have when we make requests to God? Will He give us what we want or not? Some
tell you that “Believe with your whole heart as you pray and you will get it”
True or false? Others will tell you, “Trust in the will of God. Pray not for
your will but for God’s will, and trust Him to do the right thing.” Which one
is true? We have to learn that faith requires humble trust in God, for God opposes the proud but gives grace to
the humble (James 4:6). Trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not in
your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your
paths straight (Prov. 3:5-6) Our desire should be to see the will of God done –
your will be done on earth as it is in
heaven. (Matt 6:10) Our greatest desire should be to see the will of God
realized in the affairs of humanity as it is in the perfection of heaven. The
example of Jesus’ prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane is also instructive:
He went away a second time and prayed, “My
Father, if it is not possible for this cup to be taken away unless I drink it,
may your will be done.” Matthew 26:42
Why did Jesus pray like this when
we knew that it was predetermined plan? Even when we know that predicted this
sad occurrence so many times? We must not be prayer less into a state of
fatalism and Jesus’ prayer teaches this in the loudest way possible. Can a true
believer pray like this, “God, You already know everything and you have the
power to do everything, I therefore do not need to present any request to you –
please take care of it. Amen!” NO in times of trouble we go before the Lord
with serious consideration and seek His help.
We must work towards enthusiastic
prayerfulness, rather than resign to weak or prayerless attitude. Contrary to
the attitude of resignation, Jesus taught that prayer involves expectation as
well:
See John 14:13-14 & 16:23,
James 1:5; 1 John 3:22. Others think that simply repeating in their prayer,
“…in Jesus’ Name…” will make their needs to be met. Prayer in Christ’s name is
more than repeating a formula. It involves a whole-hearted communion with him
in which the believer is conformed to Christ and His purposes: John 15:7. What
does it mean to pray in Jesus’ Name? It is to pray in harmony with Him, seeking
His intercession and submitting to Him as Lord. Christ does not assure us that
all our petitions will be granted when we pray in certain method, rather He
teaches that those requests that are in accordance with His Name, that is, His
holy character as our intercessor, will be granted by the Father in His own
wisdom.
Despite our good motives and high
hopes, much of what we pray for simply does not materialize. We may want people
to be converted, career advancements, healing from afflictions and even believe
with the whole of our hearts. Yet these hopes are not fulfilled. God chooses to
say no. how can we avoid severe disappointments in these situations? What
expectations can we have as we pray? Expectation in prayer operates on two
basic levels:
1) We
must always maintain a general confidence in the goodness of God (Psalm 34:8)
2) God
will particularly show His goodness to His people (Psalm 73:1)
Since God is good we should
always expect His responses to be good. (Psalm 25:7; Matt. 7:7-11)
Caution: to affirm that God always does good is not to say that all of God’s
responses will seem good to us. Often the perfect actions of Go can appear to
be less than good from the human point of view… a prayer for recovery of a sick
one who ends up dead, a country praying for peace ending up in violence or war.
In all these situations we must recognize that human limitations and biases can
skew our perceptions so that we do not see the reality. We can also have
confidence in prayer also to take a form of compelling certainty that
particular things will be granted as the Holy Spirit works in us to give us a
level of this conviction. Beware also of too much confidence.
Trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not in your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Prov. 3:5-6), indeed this is very true...how could one, after a careful consideration of the merciful works of God through Jesus at the Cross, and many other more mighty deeds, would not be humbled before Him and not draw near with such a sincere and thankful Heart, a heart that is looking unto a compassionate Father. I love the chose of words used to nail down this reality of prayer in one view:''enthusiastic prayerfulness", "a whole-hearted communion with him", " We must always maintain a general confidence in the goodness of God (Psalm 34:8)" and "God will particularly show His goodness to His people (Psalm 73:1)"...
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